Monday, March 7, 2011

How to Treat Your Date – Tips for Successful Dating Experience



First of all, if you’re a girl or woman, avoid calling the boy or man until such time that both of you are already dating exclusively. As much as possible, try to allow the guy to take the first move. You also need to avoid talking about your past dates, dating experiences or worse, your ex while you’re dating someone else because this might become a negative sign to your date that you’re still in love with him or her and not yet ready to have a new relationship.
Meet your date for the very first time for only a light snack or lunch in a simple public setting in about an hour or two. In this way, no one’s time will get wasted if both can truly feel that there is no connection or are not attracted with each other. Most of the time, you may be able to sense if you are or not really attracted to the other person by way of simply having a conversation with him or her.  

Be attentive and try to listen to everything what your date says. This is one way of letting him or her know that you are interested in him or her. If you can fully give your attention, he or she will be glad when you’ll be able to remember certain things and details about the conversation that has taken place during your date. This is one of the highly recommended tips for successful dating.   

Opening and closing the restaurant or car door for your date is still the best way to impress her, this is still one of the best ways to treat your female date nicely. Avoid talking too much and providing a lot of information about yourself on a first date because it could give a negative sign or impression that you have a self-focused personality or attitude. Try not to kiss a girl or woman prior to the second or third date so that it could make her wonder and think of you as one of those guys who will know their date first before making the first move.
Always thank your date after both of you part in a sincere and friendly way even if you think it will not go further. Treat each other with respect because both of you took the time in order to meet. If you like your date, try not to call her immediately the following day. It’s more exciting if you take things a bit slow by simply waiting a day or even up to three for thrill and expectation. If you’re a girl or woman, let the boy or man call you first because generally, a guy will be challenged when he does the first move.
There are other ways to treat your date in order to achieve a successful dating experience and it’s up to you to choose them. Good luck!
Tips:
Wear only the kind of clothing that will make you feel confident and comfortable on the day that you’ll meet your date.
Take more time in knowing your date especially if you met him or her via an online dating site.
Take note that there are some dating sites that could be harmful than good to other singles.
An online dating profile of your date may speak a lot about himself or herself so be cautious prior meeting your date in person.

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